How to take change
I walked with my friend, a Quaker, to the newsstand the other night, and he bought a paper, thanking the newsie politely. The newsie didn’t even acknowledge it.
A sullen fellow, isn’t he? I commented.
Oh, he’s that way every night, shrugged my friend.
Then why do you continue to be so polite to my him?’ I asked. Why not? inquired my friend. Why should I let him decide how I’m going to act?.
As I thought about this incident later, it occurred to me that the important word was act. My friends acts toward people; most of us react toward them.

